Persistence does not necessarily have results, but not persistence must have no results!

Social media to make you more complete? Or more lost?

It's a very simple movie,

But it is widely involved in a considerable number of social phenomena and scope....

Like what:

With regard to the integration of racial minorities into American society,

The main character of the story is Korean-American,

Once upon a time it was a happy family.

(The first six-minute family story of the movie,

The clip is quite natural and touching...)

After her mother died of lymphoma,

Only David and Margot's mother and daughter were left to live together.

We can see from the quite a lot of background information in the film,

The Davids have been living in the United States,

Margot also lived in the United States from an an upsning,

But they have never really integrated into the local community.

After Margot disappeared,

David desperately searched her daughter's various social media accounts for signs of her movements.

Although there are hundreds of seemingly friends (or classmates),

But none of them were really her friends.

Friends said: "She is very quiet.... Eat lunch alone every day."

"We sometimes invite her to events, but she rarely appears..."

The only one that seems to resonate best with her on the live video site,

It's the one who's worried about getting close to her...

Of course, you can say,

Margot never came out of the loss of his mother,

caused her loneliness and closure,

But we also see that

Throughout the course of the event,

David, in addition to his brother Peter,

There's no other local friend to talk to....

Obviously, such an arrangement,

In the mind of such a careful and logical director

It's not an accident,

color, race and culture,

Always will be a kind of estrangement between people.

On the other hand,

On the web, you'll only see a lot of things that aren't what they are.

When Margot's disappearance was officially announced,

Suddenly, the entire Bay Area community seemed to be inspired,

Countless people began to "care" about the stranger,

Even former apathetic classmates, friends,

are actively speaking out on social media, caring,

She even declared that "she is a very good friend of hers..."

Of course, there is no shortage of vicious speculation, rumors ...

Sometimes, we face the excitement of social hot spots in our circle of friends,

How many are sincere and true?

Even how much one-sided information we'll be guided by,

Forming our baseless love-hate feud?

While the Internet is getting closer to people's lives,

also created a new boundary,

A virtual us: "in the eyes of others we."

Sometimes when you think about it,

It's really a thing that can't stand scrutiny:

"We often don't believe in ourselves,

Even the person closest to you,

but will believe the strange,

Only appear in friends circles and WeChat

I don't see my so-called "friends" a few times a year,

Opinions, opinions.

Let their values and insights guide their most important decisions. "

Is this what should have happened?

Social media to make you more confident and complete?

Or more lost, lost the ability to self and think?

Stick to yourself, always be alone together,

Unless you find the right companion.

But the vast majority of people do not have such courage and perseverance.

Think about it.

When your thoughts and actions are following trends and circles of friends,

Applause, cursing, swearing,

but I've never really thought about it,

The truth about everything for everyone is even the reason,

Ask yourself,

Do you really live your life for yourself?

Beware of "hypocrisy" on the Internet.

In this new Internet society,

Many people have two completely different faces:

1 in front of your parents, friends, colleagues, and even loved ones,

The other one is completely in the virtual world, in the circle of friends....

In Spielberg's "Number One Player,"

It is already very realistic to show such a difference.

But some are too gorgeous.

In this work, the reflection of such a situation is more true.

Margot, 16, died after his mother died.

Although living with her beloved father,

But I can't be happy all the time.

As Peter said to David:

"Do you know why she hates piano lessons so much?"

Because every time she walks into that room,

Seeing the piano,

will think of her mother...."

David's very puzzled question:

"She told you (the uncle) but didn't tell me why?"

Peter says:

"Because you never ask! (Because you never ask!) )"

"She need you to talk to her, not the way other around. (She needs you to talk to him, not the other way around.... )"

In fact, after the death of his mother, Pam,

David is, of course, the most painful one.

But he didn't want his daughter to feel his pain,

More expectations over time,

Daughters can also get used to this kind of life...

So he doesn't want to talk about any wives longer,

Naturally, she would not talk to her daughter about her mother's past.

Margot is the same.

But she's a child after all, and she's a teenage girl,

So she couldn't bury the pain in her heart like her father, David,

She needs emotional catharsis...

So when she's on social media,

When discovering users of the nickname "Fish_n_chips" (fish and chips: a british fast food, similar to a hamburger),

She slowly liked and believed in each other...

and even used the money he had saved from his father,

To pick each other up, so that she can continue to school.

This is really typical of what happens on social media.

When people and people can really face each other,

You can use language, tone, body movements, shape, etc.

to form a comprehensive judgment of the other person,

But on social media, no,

The only judgment is the other person's text....

In fact, the fish and chips user was Margot's classmate who grew up together.

It was Robert, the son of Detective Rosemary.

Because I'm in love with Margot, I know Margot,

So you can find all kinds of ways to resonate with her,

so close to her, and at last,

led to the case that almost killed her.

So, the person on the Internet who seems to understand you,

Do you really understand you?

In fact, how many people, under the image on the network,

And how many days I am different,

Or, deliberately dressing up with purpose.

In fact, the profit-seeking nature of the nature of human nature,

Or those selfish, dark weaknesses,

and not weakened by the Internet,

Instead, it becomes harder to spot because of better disguises.

How many so-called big Vs are there on the Internet,

Behind the seemingly just, up straight,

Driven by how many interests there are...............

Just like Margot's social media friends,

Actually, they never cared about this girl,

Because she's not in a circle with them,

Even if it's always a classmate, even if it's the same AP course,

Even in the same community,

No one cares if she's missing....

Until the police made the announcement,

When this became a public event,

Everyone starts to brush the presence of heat again positively,

Seems to be full of positive energy, care and great love....

It's just "hypocrisy" on the Internet.

Even those who give you a standing ovation on the surface,

When you do fall, maybe they won't have any mercy.

Of course, to say that the two parents in the next movie,

In fact, they are in essence, and there is not much difference.

David dared to do anything to save his daughter,

So did Detective Rosemary.

It's just that she doesn't have to use such extreme means,

In the end, not only failed to save their children,

And I've built my life.

So everything really doesn't have to go too hard,

Be sure it's not black or white,

In fact, there are always many methods and options,

It's just about "letting the bullets fly a little err on."

At the end of the movie,

Margot finally realized that

There's really no gap between yourself and my father,

They're just in the past, because they care too much about each other's feelings,

And ignore the real open heart of communication and communication.

When Margot finally set their happy photos in the hospital as wallpapers,

I'm sure all the audience will be happy and happy.

True love,

It may take some hardship to prove it.

However, not all life will have such a perfect ending.

"The Internet Lost":Do we all need such a disaster?

R Jun, Winter Solstolst solstolstolsties, Shanghai, December 22, 2018

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