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Reading is something that children of every class should do their best to keep up.

- Little warm mother

Recently, an offer form for a red advertisement on the shake-up network caught fire.

Any advertising quote on these nets is the average person's salary for a year or even years.

This makes countless netizens lemon.

What to learn, twisting your waist in shaking, pretending to be ugly, a young relaxed millions of dollars

"I'm reading hard in the cold window, worried about the future, and people of the same age have won at the starting line!" The college entrance examination is not the goal, become the net red way out of poverty and get rich ah

"Please red ah, I also want to be online red, I am not so high requirements, an advertisement can sell thousands, I am happy to die"

"A few days ago also boasted about the annual salary of 2 million Tsinghua graduates, and net red than weak explosion, these net red most of the high school did not graduate it"

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The little warm mother who saw these messages was shocked, and a large part of them were students leaving messages.

Is the college entrance exam useless? Is reading useless? When the net red, star is the right way? What a terrible perception,

Would you like to open your eyes and look at these two pictures? Look at their worth and college! Reading is much more useful than you think!

Which of China's top industry tycoons is not a famous school?!

Stop talking about Bill Gates dropping out of school and Jobs dropping out of school. Did you know they dropped out of Harvard and stanford? Do you know what wisdom and ability people have to have to enter these two schools?

And don't bluff the story of your next-door neighbor starting a business after graduating from junior high school, which is a one-in-a-million chance.

You worship the "White Ding successful people", may be squeezing their heads to Changjiang Business School, is buying a school diploma to fill the face!

Reading useless theory is one of the most shameless lies, no!

The aura of entertainment, behind the lurking is the endless abyss

In the rapid development of the Internet today, grow particularly ugly can be red, eyebrows can be broken red, uncle can be red, selling cake grandpa can be red, net red, star seems to become no longer out of reach, even at your fingertest.

So the children have started to do "star dream", shaking sound, play live.

Even Little S's 13-year-old daughter, Xu Weiwen, has entered the entertainment world.

Because she felt that the star's money is too good to earn, as long as the photo shoot beautiful, recording the program, you can easily get a lot of money.

When her daughter first had this idea, little S was very much against it.

Why?

Because in the entertainment industry crawled and rolled for more than 20 years small S know that the entertainment industry's "water is too deep", the road is too difficult.

Not only small S, like Zhang Jiahui, Liang Jiahui, Liu Dehua, Yuan Yuyi and other stars have said they do not agree with their children into this line.

They fear that the cost of fame will be unbearable for their children, who will become one of those stars who have committed suicide because of depression.

"One day heaven, one day hell" life they have had enough, they only wish the children to live ordinary and ordinary days.

Behind the high income is the unbearable price that the average person can't bear.

Summer wear, winter water is the norm, can sleep up to 5 hours a day is a luxury; in order to thin, do not eat rice for several years; in order to take a picture, to draw a few hours of makeup, dare not eat and drink; burn, horse crash, car accident, wrestling fractures in the course of shooting, is countless ...

Pan Yueming was filming when he suddenly had a roll-over accident

Zhang Bozhi performed the flying car project, the lower body temporarily paralyzed

Not only do you have these "skin-skin pains", it's too hard to get out of the entertainment world, even if you have parental support, but as long as the audience doesn't like you, you don't have a day to come out.

Being a star is like winning a lottery: a superstar is like a jackpot, and there are few in the country.

And, being a star means you'll have no privacy, once you're famous, someone will check on your "Nines", have an illegitiance chase you, the paparazzi will stare at you, and black powder will attack you.

Why would a little S, so opposed to his daughter entering the entertainment industry, let her join the business?

Because she has enough resources to pave the way for her daughter, let her daughter just walk the international red carpet, squeeze out a number of celebrities to take the famous make-up brand ads, enough to let the child avoid the darkness of the entertainment circle.

Of course, I do not completely deny the entertainment circle, any profession has been affirmed place, the entertainment industry is not short of german artists, the idol power of the red positive energy.

If a child wants to be a star, likes acting or singing, and has talent, and as his own dream, and the child knows that he or she is going to pay the price for this dream, the responsibility and difficulties are willing to insist, then parents should encourage the child's dream.

Dreams in the child's heart, like a beam of light, shining on them constantly forward, sometimes, the distance between the child and the dream, only one encouragement to us.

But the premise of "round dream" must be to adhere to the academic, beautiful leather bag, interesting soul one, only learning can enrich your soul, enrich your skills, let you red long-term.

The star of the popular, empty leather bag can only be a flash in the pan.

Reading is something that children of every class should do their best to keep up

In Elizabeth's new book, Expensive Little Happiness: The Theory of the Aspiring Class, she proposes a concept called "Aspiring Class":

"Rather than spending a lot of money on traditional luxuries, modern, high-income groups are more likely to spend money on invisible aspects such as education, health care, food, and so on."

The so-called "aspiring class" is not to prove itself through ostentatious consumption, but to define the new elite through culture and knowledge.

Elite families are doing their best to get their children to learn, how can the children of ordinary families give up?

How do ordinary families raise children?

Speaking of the experience of raising children, mother Yang Chenxuan, the country's first college entrance examination, said:

Children must be cultivated from an early age, but must be in the child does not have the ability to think independently, supervision to develop habits.

The process of supervision (habit formation) is painful, you have to monitor him all the time, keep an eye on him, self-discipline, rather than, like many parents now, throw your child to play with your own cell phone. After the child's heart is stereotyped, the road behind is good to go.

We will not disturb his study, we keep the ordinary heart, we can ensure his ordinary heart, his school work we are to give to the teacher. Usually basically only take care of his logistics, because believe that a peaceful, stable home is the best for the child.

Before there have been media interviews with the country's 68 college entrance examination yuan, I found that their family education, there are striking similarities, very worthy of our study!

1, learn to think is better than learning

Science-like metas are often keen on logic and reasoning, and arts-like meta-s love reading, expressing them well, and chatting with different people can also be one of their hobbies.

This habit of thinking and eager for knowledge stems from the inspiration of parents at an early age. Such as Anhui Yuan Sun Meng's mother said, "If it is a scene, we will try to take the child to experience, let the child 'feel and hair', rather than making up."

2, with AIDS nourishing the school bully

Behind the schoolboys is not a group of tiger moms and wolves with whips on their backs. They all describe their parents as "relaxed, trusting, like friends."

There is a good interpretation of the relationship between love and achievement - "children's poor grades, most of them are insecure, energy in the inner conflict exhausted."

3, parents to do by them

Children rarely mention their parents' verbal teachings to themselves, but more about their parents' operational infections.

Dong Jiyang, an Anhui-shaped yuan, said:"Occasionally I would get tired of learning, don't want to read, my parents noticed, and didn't say anything, so I turned off the TV, sat down to read, and saw them reading, and I was embarrassed not to read."

4, teach children to "do their own thing"!

Almost all parents mention "doing their own thing" to foster their children's independence from an upsning.

A Tsinghua schoolboy said in the interview, is the parents' respect and let go let me learn not to run away from the situation, active thinking.

5, according to the material teaching, dig the child's flash point

In the interview, you can see that some of the criticized ways of education, but because of the right people, and did not come to the child's disgust.

Guangdong Yuan ZhangHeng said he was a strong and confident child from an young age, sometimes inevitably a little complacent.

"Whenever I get a little bit of success, dad gives me occasional affirmation and encouragement, but it's more about 'throwing cold water' and reminding me of new loopholes, and I call my dad's approach to education 'critical education', which I think suits me very well."

6, read the classic, broaden the thinking

When I was a child to see the world famous works, read everyone's classics, this is a lot of meta in the interview mentioned the way to read.

Sun Wei, who won 148 points in the Beijing language college entrance examination, said in the article: The more you read, the more you will cultivate a sense of language. The cultivation of reading is also absolutely inseparable from the guidance of parents, said that parents love to read stories to her from an young child.

7, the necessary set of wrong questions, and constantly correct errors

96% of the metas do not approve of the "sea tactics", but 99% of the metas will have a self-organizing set of wrong questions.

Do the problem is not in the quantity of quality, in fact, the problem type is so much, the blind spots are found invincible.

8, the law of rest, love sports

Middle school students are in the growth and development period, if in this period of irregular rest, often late sleep will inevitably affect learning and physical development.

In the interview, 98% of the meta said that they never stay up late, even when preparing for the exam is also eleven o'clock to sleep, to ensure adequate sleep, rest law, usually also often exercise.

9, more important than grades

Parents care more about their children's attitudes to learning than about grades, and most parents say they value things more than they do about learning.

Anhui Yuan Ding Yaxuan's mother said:"As long as the child is kind, can distinguish right from wrong, no matter how her path chooses, I absolutely support!"

This sentence almost represents the voice of most of the parents in the interview. These parents value their children's safety, health, happiness, happiness more than their grades...

Warm Mom has something to say

Why do ordinary people's children have to keep reading?

I would like to use the documentary "The Way Out", Xu Jia's sentence answer, and Longyingtai's sentence answer:

"There's a lot of injustice in this society, and I accept it, and all I'm doing now is trying to avoid my next generation being hurt by the injustices I've been through."

"Boy, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to do better than others, but because I hope you will have the right to choose in the future, to choose meaningful, time-available work, not to be forced to earn a living."

When your work makes sense in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment, and when your work gives you time, without depriving you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity will bring you happiness.

I'm little warm mother, thank you for every point for me"Looking at it."you.

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