25-year-old divorce, 45-year-old widower, worth 1 billion Facebook women to meet good men: good people are never short of peach blossoms

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When it comes to Facebook, everyone thinks of founder Zuckerberg for the first time.

But geese, but few people pay attention to the sameThe second-in-command in charge of the technology company's lifebloodShirley Sandberg

The.He was Google's vice president for eight years and is a billion-dollar billionaireIt's a very important work partner that Zuckerberg often talks about.

Xiaoza usually doesn't boast less about her, he speaks up,Without Shirley, there would be no Facebook today.

Two days ago, the 50-year-old Silicon Valley goddess announced her engagement!

The fiance is the founder of Kelton Global, a marketing company.Tom Bernthal, 3 years her age.

Little show love Shirley, this time the official announcement of good news is also to maintain a consistently low-key style, only sent a photo of two people affectionately looking at each other, and accompanied by:

"You are all I have, and I can't love you more!"”

The husband-to-be also responded sweetly:"I love you so much, and it's really exciting to spend the rest of my life with you!"”

As soon as the good news of Shirley's engagement came out, a group of business friends came to send their best wishes.

As Shirley's boss, Zuckerberg is certainly at the fore："Congratulations!Lang talent female appearance, heaven and earth set up a pair, I am happy for you two!”

Instagram's chief operating officer Justin, Bill Gates' wife Melinda and Delta's CEO were between the bigwigs.

Shirley can be seen in the circle of people are not shallow.

Since the two announced their relationship last summer, melon-eating netizens have been thinking about the daily love affair between the two business tycoons.Is it trench inhumanity or elite blowing each other?

let everyone down.

Shirley and Tom's day-to-day simplyLow-key as passers-byWhen not working, the two occasionally go to the park for a walk, climb mountains, shopping in the supermarket.

Usually dressed very simpleIf it wasn't for the people who knew them, it would be hard to guess that this is a high-level business man in the workplace.

Outsiders seem to be plain love day-to-day, in their eyes is a long stream of fine water, the small details of life are hidden love.

Take this proposal, 46-year-old Tom chose to be located in Vermejo Park, on the border between New Mexico and Colorado.That's where they first dated。

Tom took Shirley up the mountain to break his heart, and after a picnic he pulled out his engagement ring to propose, giving her a surprise.

It is said that the ring is also specialSet with five small diamonds, representing five women for two people.

Yes, both are business elites who bring their own lives, and now they are holding hands to re-establish a lively family.

This isn't Shirley's first marriage.

But everyone was still pleasantly surprised by the news of her engagement and was happy for her.

Because everyone who knows Shirley knows that she's hanging out in the workplace,Marriages in the first half of their lives have had ups and downs。

The 25-year-old went through a flash marriage, flashed away, and then lost his middle-aged husband... Now can find the good people to spend the rest of their lives together again, what a happy thing ah!

And the Facebook executive's experience has convinced everyone,As long as you are good enough, everything you want will come to you.

Before taking the title of Facebook's chief operating officer, every work experience on Shirley's resume was glittering.

After graduating from Harvard, she worked well in politics and was promoted all the wayChief of Staff, U.S. Treasury Department。

In 2000, she quit her "iron rice bowl" and threw her life into an internet industry she was completely unfamiliar with, and began to break into Silicon Valley.

After a while, she joined Google, a small company she had only been with for three years.

in herServed as Vice President of Googleeight yearsUnder her leadership, the advertising department expanded from a four-person "small workshop" to a 4,000-person super team.

Shirley can do both politics and business,No wonder Xiaoza spent a lot of effort digging her up.

Please eat when you're all right,Soft grinding hard bubble small half a year, only to put ShirleyGrab it from big companies like Disney and Uber.

Shirley14 years older than Xiaoza,The two are alumni of Harvard University, but at the time the pair were not well-liked.

Some netizens sarcastically said, one is the political and business elite, one is a young and crazy code farmers, together with IT can collide what sparks?

Are you sure the two won't quarrel every day because of the generation gap?

It turned out that Zuckerberg had a good eye and that Shirley had the right choice.

The year she joined, Facebook was just four years old, with annual advertising revenue of less than $300 million, and three years later, it soared to $3.8 billion.

Today, Facebook is one of the most profitable technology companies. The water rose high,Xiaoza is on the list of the world's richest people, and Shirley has become "the world's 1 billion COO",Forbes' most influential businesswoman.

In an internet company full of young people, the young Shirley is not a professional witch in her eyes.

She loves to play and occasionally self-black.

And the younger generation of colleagues into one, will also humbly accept that her subordinates point out her shortcomings.

It's the 16th anniversary of Facebook' founding, tooShirley is in her 12th year on the team。

Her reputation and reputation have long since been accepted by the people of the whole company.

Unfortunately, there are not many red people, and society's stereotypes of women are too deep.

Over the years, Shirley has heard a lot of questions and criticisms in the industry, and the workplace, which has a mixed reputation, is not a good place to go.

To this day, the industry still occasionallyRumours have emerged that she is leaving her job and being poached by big companies......

Fortunately, the gossip made her sad, but it didn't bring her down.

"The calm sea doesn't make a good sailor.”

Shirley says the best response to negative reviews is to work hard and continue to work hard in the workplace.

It's not.The workplace is proud, peach blossom luck also followed to find the door.

At the age of 35, Shirley met her first husband, Dave Goldberg（Dave Goldberg）。

Dave was an executive at Yahoo! and after marrying Shirley, he followed his wife into Silicon Valley, starting his own business and becoming a well-known Silicon Valley entrepreneur.

Everyone called them at the time.Silicon Valley sculptor”。

After 11 years of marriage, the elite couple had a son and a daughter.

The two men, who run their respective companies, took va, and the family of four had a happy little life.

But no one thought thatAn accident shattered the happy home.

In 2015, Shirley and her husband Dave were on vacation in Mexico when Dave died one afternoon while running in the gym.

The heavy blow plunged Shirley into the darkest moment of her life,Sadness is like an endless abyss, constantly devouring her.

During that time, Shirley had a bad day, she did not communicate with people, nor dare to face their two lovely children.

A month after Dave's death, Shirley's long Facebook eulogy was heart-wringing

"Being a couple with Dave for 11 years and being parents for 10 years was the luckiest and happiest time of my life."

"These 30 days are as long as 30 years, and there seems to be no end to grief.”

Five years on, Shirley has emerged from the shadow of losing her beloved. Now every year Dave's birthday, she sends a message of condolence.

The painful experience was later written by Shirley in her new book《Option B》里。

“Life is more than sorrow, it has more choices.”

Face the pain, in order to get out of the pain.

Shirley, who had experienced the pain of deverache, gradually returned to her normal life and returned to work.

Last spring, she met her current fiance Tom under the introduction of a friend.

His experience was as dazzling as his education, and more importantly,Two people's values fit in one shot.

Although there is not much time to spend on weekdays, for these two business elites, high-quality, short-lived relationships are more important than low-quality day-night company.

They went to concerts together, traveled together, and went to Greece for the public good.

Both have long been parents, for the family life of 5 va chest, there is a sense, no chicken flying dog jump.

Now the two decided to spend the rest of their lives together, and life returned to perfection.

Behind those dazzling auras in life, there must be endless training.

Putting aside the impressive titles, Shirley Sandberg, like many ordinary women, has been discriminated against in the workplace and has experienced the weight of losing her beloved life.

In her graduation speech at the University of California, she said:“Those hard days shape and determine who you are.”

Destiny wants you to grow up, and it will give you suffering.

Through the trough, nature will go to the mountains.